This is my quest to figure out answers in life to...whatever happens to us everyday. I have been diagnosed with cancer this past year, and I'm not necessarily trying to figure out why this happened to me, but what is the meaning behind it all.
Monday, May 9, 2011
Just Another Day
Yesterday was Mothers' Day, and to me it was just another day. It's not that I don't celebrate being a Mother, because I do. There's several days out of the year I celebrate being a Mom...Ashley's and Anthony's birthdays are the main ones. I know that's their day mostly, but I celebrate how I became a Mother on those days too. I just don't want my family to go all crazy on Mothers' Day for me. I would prefer to have more than just one day to be recognized. As Mothers, don't we all want that? And by that I mean recognize the little things I do more often during the year. There are 365 days we work as Mothers. Why is there only 1 day set aside for us? Like 1 day will make the difference! Recognize me out of the blue some day during the year. Am I asking for too much?
The only thing I asked for was to have dinner made for me by Jason and Ashley. That's it. I didn't want to go out anywhere because isn't that what everyone else wants to do? The restaurants are crazy busy on days like that. No thank you! I just wanted a peaceful and relaxing day. They insisted on getting me something though. I understand that is a way my family shows appreciation for me, but for me I would rather have something DONE for me not a gift bought for me. However, I did appreciate it even though I may not have shown it. I think I was a little angry they didn't listen to me...but what's new with that! They got me a smoker, which is something I've been asking for the last 2 years at Christmas time. I'm glad they got something we all can enjoy. I so love my kitchen appliances! :) I love anything that will make cooking easier for me! And I'm excited about all the things I can make with it. Instead of a fried turkey this year, we may be haved a smoked one for Thanksgiving! Yum!
Anyway, I did have a nice day yesterday. I did some laundry...well...because I needed to, but I did have some relaxing moments throughout the day. That's all I can ask for. Dinner was delicious and we had some fun family time playing games. But even though I asked them not to make a fuss over me for Mothers' Day, they still did. I guess I feel pretty special about that. Can I be queen for a day again this year?
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